Detachment is, in the Catholic tradition, one of the gateways of the interior life: the freedom of a heart that loosens itself from everything in order to attach itself to God alone. "For where your treasure is, there also will your heart be"[1], Christ warns; and Saint Paul sums up the whole movement in a word: "I consider everything as rubbish, that I may gain one advantage: Christ"[2]. It is a central notion — and it is also, of the whole spiritual vocabulary, one of the most caricatured words today.
For it lends itself to misunderstanding on both sides at once. For some, "being detached" evokes coldness, indifference, gloomy renunciation, contempt for goods and affections — as if holiness demanded hardening one's heart and ceasing to love. For others, detachment is measured by visible gestures: what one gives up, what one deprives oneself of, what poverty one displays. And we oscillate between two symmetrical discouragements: believing we will never get there because we still feel attachments, or believing ourselves detached because we have renounced a few outward things while keeping our heart captive.
"Apply yourself, then, to detaching your heart from the love of visible things, so as to carry it wholly toward the invisible." — The Imitation of Christ, book I, chapter 1[3]
Yet Christian detachment is neither apathy nor ascetic performance: it is an order of love. Not loving less, but loving each creature in its rightful place and God above all; not an emptied heart, but a free heart. This article reviews the most common misconceptions about detachment, grouped according to whether they concern its nature, its means and practice, or its degrees and the interior life. For each one, it states the error in its everyday formulation, shows why it appeals, why it is false, then recalls what the Church and the saints truly teach.
This is neither a practical guide nor an anthology: for the detailed nature of detachment, its degrees, its concrete means of growth and its fruits, see How to Grow in Detachment; for the saints' own voice — the bird and the thread, the "nothing," "God alone suffices" — see What the Saints Say About Detachment. Here, as in the twin articles of the series — Common Misunderstandings About Temperance or Common Misconceptions About Evangelical Poverty — we clear the ground: we first learn to recognize counterfeit coins so as to better receive true gold.
Why is detachment so misunderstood?
An ascetic term turned into a mood word
The first misunderstanding is one of vocabulary. Detachment is a precise spiritual term; but the modern ear hears it through other, similar-sounding words that distort it. "Letting go," "taking a step back," "no longer letting oneself be affected," "putting things in perspective": so many expressions that designate psychological attitudes, even stress-management techniques, where what matters above all is protecting oneself from suffering. We spontaneously file detachment in this family, as a way of suffering less from things by attaching ourselves to them less.
But Christian detachment does not aim first at my interior comfort: it aims at God. It does not consist in anaesthetizing myself against reality, but in freeing my heart so that it can adhere to the one who alone satisfies. Saint Augustine stated its root in a formula that has become famous: "You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in you"[4]. Detachment is not an end — a void to be attained — but a means: making room for a fullness. Confusing the interior freedom of the saints with the emotional detachment of Stoic sages or modern wellness techniques is the mother-error from which almost all the others derive.
A virtue imagined as purely negative
A second, deeper misunderstanding: we picture detachment as an operation of subtraction. "To detach oneself" would mean cutting back, renouncing, depriving oneself, severing; and we imagine perfection as a progressive impoverishment, a heart emptying itself of its affections until it desires nothing more. Hence the impression of a sad virtue, reserved for austere temperaments, hostile to joy and to the beauty of the world.
The Church, however, presents detachment as an ordering, not an amputation. The Catechism asks us to "order our affections rightly," so that attachment "contrary to the spirit of evangelical poverty" does not turn us away from "the pursuit of the perfection of charity"[5]. The evil is not loving creatures — God made them good and wills us to use them[6] — but loving them disorderly, in God's place or against him. Saint Augustine called this ordered love: not loving less, but loving each thing in the degree that belongs to it. Detachment therefore does not extinguish love: it purifies and expands it. It is a liberation, not a mutilation.
Mistakes about the nature of detachment
"Detachment means despising or disdaining creatures"
This is the most widespread foundational error: to attach oneself to God, one would have to despise everything else — holding creatures to be evil, dangerous, unworthy of love, and cultivating disgust toward them as a virtue. Detachment is then confused with a suspicious dolorism, in which the beauty of the world, goods, legitimate pleasures, even persons, become so many traps to flee. The error appeals because it seems radical and generous: if God alone counts, everything else would be worth nothing.
But this is precisely the temptation the Church has always fought, from ancient Manichaeism to modern rigorisms. Creation is good — "God saw that it was good" — and the Catechism recalls that created things are gifts made to lead to their Author, to be used, not disparaged[7]. Detachment does not concern creatures as such, but the disordered attachment we invest in them: what the Catechism targets is attachment "contrary to the spirit of evangelical poverty"[8], not the use of goods. Despising what God made good is not detachment: it is ingratitude disguised as fervor. The saint does not disdain the world; he passes through it as a free man, seeing in each thing a reflection and a gift of God, and referring to the Creator the love the gift awakens. On this point the saints are unanimous: detachment "is not contempt for the created world," as the anthology What the Saints Say About Detachment recalls.
"Being detached means becoming insensitive and no longer loving anything"
An affective variant of the previous one, and perhaps the most damaging: perfection would require extinguishing one's affections, no longer letting oneself be moved, coldly regarding what touches others. A certain impassibility is then admired, taken for mastery, and Christian detachment is confused with the apatheia of the Stoics — the absence of passion erected into an ideal. The error appeals because coldness has the appearance of strength and freedom.
But the Gospel shows exactly the opposite. Christ, the model of all perfection, is not a heart of stone: he weeps over his friend Lazarus, he is moved with pity for the crowd, he loves "with a love of predilection" the rich young man at the very moment he calls him to leave everything. True detachment does not abolish love: it frees it from possessiveness to make it vaster. Saint Francis de Sales established this with a famous image: the detached heart is like the halcyon that builds its nest upon the sea without the water entering it — it remains "master" of what it touches, "above" things and not "in" them[9]. Far from hardening the heart, detachment makes it available, tender, and strong at once. Insensibility mistaken for virtue is even one of the counterfeits unmasked by the practical guide How to Grow in Detachment: a heart that no longer loves is not detached, it is dead.
"Detachment is not hardness of heart." A heart that no longer loves anything is not free: it is extinguished. The saint, on the contrary, loves more, but differently — with a love that does not cling.
"Detachment is indifference: nothing should matter anymore"
A subtle error, which invokes a true word to make it mean the opposite of its sense. Since the spiritual masters praise "holy indifference," we conclude that detachment would consist in preferring nothing anymore, in welcoming everything with the same dreary heart, in making oneself "equal" to all things through a kind of interior neutrality. Indifference then becomes another name for acedia: that lukewarm distaste in which nothing moves us anymore, in which we await, desire, and love nothing. The error appeals because it borrows the saints' vocabulary.
But Saint Ignatius's "holy indifference" has nothing of this lukewarmness. It does not mean "it's all the same to me" but "I want what God wants": an ardent readiness for any path provided it leads to God.
"We must make ourselves indifferent to all created things [...] so that, for our part, we want health no more than sickness, riches no more than poverty [...] but desire and choose only what leads us more to the end for which we are created." — Saint Ignatius of Loyola, Spiritual Exercises, § 23 ("Principle and Foundation")[10]
Ignatian indifference is therefore anything but indifferent: it is a desire for God so pure that it levels everything else — not through apathy, but through excess of love. Far from relativizing everything, it establishes an absolute hierarchy — God first, and everything else in his light. Confusing this burning freedom with the lukewarm person's dreary indifference is mistaking acedia for a virtue.
"Detaching oneself from people means ceasing to love them or cutting ties"
A particularly painful error, since it touches the most legitimate affections: to be detached, one would have to distance oneself from those one loves, cool one's friendships, guard against loving too strongly for fear of "becoming attached." The apparent harshness of certain words of Christ is quoted — "if anyone comes to me without preferring me to his father, his mother..."[11] — and we deduce that love of our kin would be an obstacle to be eliminated. The error appeals because it leans on real texts, read out of their meaning.
But these words do not command us to love less: they command us to love better, by loving God more. The Gospel "hate" is a Semitism meaning "to love less, not to prefer to"[12] — not a call to rupture. Detachment with regard to persons is not the abandonment of bonds, but their purification: we cease to possess the other, to appropriate them, to make them an idol or a support standing in God's place; and we begin to love them in God and for God, with a freer, truer love, more capable of gift. Detachment rightly understood does not separate us from beings: it delivers love from possessiveness and makes it eternal. The concrete way to detach one's heart from persons without ceasing to love them is developed in How to Grow in Detachment.
Mistakes about the means and practice
"Detachment means first getting rid of outward things"
An error of level: the whole of detachment is placed in the material gesture — giving, selling, throwing away, depriving oneself of this or that object, lowering one's standard of living — as if freedom of heart were measured by the quantity of goods one has shed. We can then believe ourselves detached because we possess little, or despair of being so because we possess much. The error appeals because it is concrete, verifiable, and sometimes flatters the renouncer's self-love.
But the essence of detachment is not in the hand: it is in the heart. Christ does not ask us to count what we possess, but to decide whom we serve: "No one can serve two masters [...]. You cannot serve both God and Mammon"[13] — not an arithmetic of renunciation, but a choice of master. Saint Francis de Sales distinguishes with one stroke the one who possesses goods without setting his heart on them from the one who has nothing but burns with envy for them:
"The scorpion's venom [...]. I approve of your having possessions [...] and of your having more than you have [...] but I want you to possess them with a heart not possessed by them. [...] Be rich in effect and poor in affection." — Saint Francis de Sales, Introduction to the Devout Life, III, 14[14]
We can therefore be rich and perfectly detached, poor and perfectly captive. Saint Teresa of Avila aims deeper still: we believe we have given ourselves wholly to God by letting go of our goods, whereas "we do in fact hold back the principal and the capital"[15] — self-esteem, self-will, the desire to be thought well of. Outward stripping is useful, sometimes necessary; but it is only the sign and servant of detachment of heart, never its measure. On specifically material detachment and the spirit of poverty, see Common Misconceptions About Evangelical Poverty.
"Detachment is for monks: you have to leave everything"
An error of state of life: radical detachment — that of the Gospel, "renouncing all that one possesses"[16] — would be reserved for religious, for consecrated persons, for those who have "left everything." The layperson engaged in the world, married, a property owner, with a profession and responsibilities, would be dispensed from it: ordinary life for him, perfection for monks. The error appeals because it relieves: it files the Gospel demand under special vocations.
But the Catechism is formal: detachment of heart is required of all. "All Christ's faithful" must order their affections so as not to be turned away from "the pursuit of the perfection of charity"[17]; and "the precept of detachment from riches is obligatory for entrance into the Kingdom of heaven"[18], not an optional counsel. The distinction is not between those who must detach themselves and those dispensed from it, but between two ways of living the same detachment: some through the effective renunciation of the evangelical counsels, others through detachment of heart amid the goods they administer. The first beatitude — "Blessed are the poor in spirit"[19] — is addressed to every baptized person. The rich young man was not turned away because he was a layman, but because his heart clung to his goods[20]; and the Gospel shows married disciples, wealthy women serving Christ with their goods without ceasing to be free. Detachment is not a wall between states of life: it is the common freedom of all God's children.
"We detach ourselves by the sole effort of our will"
An error of method, frequent among generous souls: detachment would be a conquest of the will, the fruit of tenacious ascetic effort — gritting one's teeth, tearing out one's attachments one by one, forcing oneself no longer to hold on. It is made a matter of personal discipline, and we grow discouraged when, despite all our efforts, our heart remains caught. The error appeals because it honors generosity and leaves the soul mistress of its progress.
But we do not detach ourselves alone. The Catechism recalls that we must "strive, with grace from above," and that it is "with the grace of God" that the faithful mortify their cravings and prevail over seductions[21]. The deepest detachment — from the subtle attachments of which we are not even aware — is God's work in us, not our industry alone. Saint John of the Cross teaches that the most tenacious attachments are not broken by effort, but purified by God's passive action in the "night," where the soul lets itself be stripped rather than stripping itself. Our part is real — fighting, asking, consenting — but it is ordered to a grace that alone completes the work. Believing we detach ourselves by will alone often merely shifts the attachment one notch: we end up attached to our own detachment. The place of grace and petition is developed in How to Grow in Detachment.
"The more I deprive myself visibly, the more detached I am"
An error of measure, closely tied to pride: we assess our detachment by the quantity and visibility of our renunciations — fasts, privations, displayed austerities — as if virtue grew in proportion to the spectacle. We come to take pleasure in our sacrifices, to count them, to deem ourselves more advanced than those who deprive themselves less. The error appeals because it gives tangible proofs of progress and feeds a secret satisfaction.
But detachment is not measured by visible renunciation: it is measured by the freedom of the heart, which is invisible. Yet it is possible to deprive oneself greatly while remaining deeply attached — attached to the self-image renunciation procures, to others' esteem, to the satisfaction of feeling virtuous. This is the pride of renunciation, a counterfeit also unmasked by the practical guide How to Grow in Detachment: we have detached ourselves from goods, but attached ourselves to our own perfection, which is a far subtler and more tenacious attachment. Saint Teresa of Avila warns: beneath the apparent gift, "we hold back the principal and the capital"[22]. The true measure of detachment is not what we leave, but the peace with which we would accept not having left it had God so willed, and the humility with which we compare ourselves to no one. A detachment that watches itself is not yet detachment.
Mistakes about the degrees and the interior life
"If I still feel attachment, I have failed"
An error that paralyzes delicate souls: since detachment aims at a free heart, the slightest felt attachment — a keen affection, a tenacious liking, a regret, a movement of possessiveness — would prove we are not detached, that we have failed, that we must start all over. Detachment is then confused with the absence of any feeling of attachment, and we grieve at never attaining it. The error appeals because it takes the demand seriously — but places it in the wrong spot.
For detachment lies not in feeling, but in consenting. We can feel a keen attachment without consenting to it, as we can be tempted without sinning; what holds the soul is not the affection felt, but the consent of the will that rests in it and makes it its treasure. Saint John of the Cross specifies, however, that even a tiny voluntary attachment suffices to hold the soul back, with an unforgettable image:
"It makes little difference whether a bird is tied by a thick cord or a thin thread: for though it be thin, the bird will remain as firmly bound as if it were thick, until it breaks it to fly." — Saint John of the Cross, The Ascent of Mount Carmel, book I, ch. 11[23]
The image does not condemn feeling, but the consent that makes it a thread: what holds the bird is not that it has feathers, but that a thread — however slender — is knotted and unbroken. Feeling an affection is therefore not failure; consenting to it as an absolute is. The work of detachment does not consist in feeling nothing anymore — an illusion of insensibility — but in knotting nothing more that takes God's place. That is why we can be fully detached while still traversed by attractions: everything is decided in the will, not in what is felt.
"Detaching oneself from spiritual consolations means depriving oneself of God"
An error of fervent souls: detachment would hold for earthly goods, but stop at the threshold of the spiritual. Detaching oneself from the consolations of prayer — sensible sweetness, tears, the taste of God — would amount to depriving oneself of God himself, despising his gifts, becoming ungrateful. So we cling to sensible favors as the measure of the spiritual life, and believe ourselves forsaken when they cease. The error appeals because it confuses, in all good faith, God's gift with God himself.
But consolations are not God: they are his gifts. Attaching ourselves to them risks loving the sweetness of prayer more than the one we seek in it — "seeking the consolations of God rather than the God of consolations," in the classic phrase. Saint Thérèse of the Child Jesus lived and taught precisely this detachment: loving God in aridity as much as in light, and preferring his will to his sensible favors[24]. This is the object of the "night" described by Saint John of the Cross: God withdraws sensible consolations not to move away, but to purify love and teach the soul to love him and not his gifts. Detaching oneself from consolations is therefore not depriving oneself of God: it is preferring him to everything, even to his own gifts — the purest form of detachment. This detachment from consolations is treated as one of the degrees in How to Grow in Detachment.
"Total detachment is for mystics, not for me"
An error of discouragement: perfect detachment — Saint John of the Cross's "nothing," Teresa of Avila's "God alone suffices" — would be a summit reserved for a few great mystics, beyond the ordinary Christian's reach. We give up seeking it in advance, persuaded we are not capable of it, and content ourselves with a "small detachment" without ambition. The error appeals because it disguises itself as humility; in reality, it limits in advance what God wills to give.
But detachment is not a heroic feat: it is a path with degrees, open to all, where each advances according to his grace. Not all are called to the "nothing" of the great contemplatives; but all are called to the first step — ordering their affections, preferring nothing to God — and none is excluded. The Catechism places this step in the life of "all the faithful"[25], and it describes the very desire for happiness as the spring that "frees man from immoderate attachment to the goods of this world"[26]. The word is decisive: immoderate attachment — not all attachment. Perfect detachment is a call, not a prerequisite; we do not wait to have attained it before setting out. Seeking God above all, where we are, with what we have, is already being on the path the mystics walked to its end.
"Once detached, it is acquired for good"
A last, more diffuse error: detachment would be a stage we cross once and for all — a threshold after which we would be "free," sheltered from attachments, dispensed from returning to it. We believe ourselves detached because we once were, and we cease to keep watch. The error appeals through its convenience: it turns a permanent combat into a definitive acquisition.
But the human heart constantly re-ties the threads it has broken, and shifts its attachments where we least expect them. Detachment is not an acquired state but a disposition to be maintained, a combat always resumed: no sooner have we detached ourselves from one good than we attach ourselves to another, or to the idea of being detached. Saint Paul, who could say "I consider everything as rubbish"[27], still knew himself to be "in the race," "forgetting what lies behind" and straining forward. Hence the Apostle's recommendation of the heart's permanent attitude, using the world without settling in it:
"Let those using the world be as not using it fully, for the world in its present form is passing away." — Saint Paul, First Letter to the Corinthians 7:31[28]
Detachment is therefore not a door we close behind us: it is a freedom to be reconquered each day, the ever-renewed movement of a heart that loosens itself to better attach itself to God. "Think of what is above, not of what is on earth"[29]: the imperative is in the continuous present, never in the accomplished past.
Error and truth at a glance
The table below sums up the misconceptions covered: on the left, the error in its everyday formulation; in the middle, what makes it false; on the right, what the Church and the saints truly teach, with their source. It reads line by line, like a quick antidote to received ideas.
| The common error | Why it is wrong | What the Church and the saints teach |
|---|---|---|
| Detachment means despising creatures | Creation is good; the evil is disordered attachment, not use | Use created things to go to God (CCC § 226); order your affections (CCC § 2545)[30] |
| Being detached means becoming insensitive | Christ weeps and loves; detachment expands charity | "Rich in effect, poor in affection" (Francis de Sales, Devout Life III, 14)[31] |
| Detachment is indifference: nothing matters | Confuses holy indifference with lukewarm acedia | "Desire only what leads us more to the end for which we are created" (Ignatius, Exercises § 23)[32] |
| Detaching from people means ceasing to love them | The Gospel "hate" = "to love less, not to prefer to" | Love in God and for God, without possessing (cf. Lk 14:26)[33] |
| Detachment means getting rid of things | The essence is in the heart, not in the hand | We hold back "the principal and the capital" (Teresa of Avila)[34] |
| Detachment is for monks | The precept binds all the faithful | "Obligatory for entrance into the Kingdom" (CCC § 2544); "Blessed are the poor in spirit" (Mt 5:3)[35] |
| We detach ourselves by will alone | Deep attachments are purified by grace | "Strive, with grace from above" (CCC § 2549)[36] |
| The more visibly I deprive myself, the more detached I am | Detachment is measured by freedom of heart, invisible | Keep your heart "not possessed" by your goods (Francis de Sales)[37] |
| All felt attachment is failure | Confuses feeling with consenting | The bird held by the thread it knots, not by its feathers (John of the Cross, Ascent I, 11)[38] |
| Detaching from consolations means losing God | Confuses God's gift with God | Prefer the God of consolations to the consolations of God (Thérèse of Lisieux)[39] |
| Total detachment is reserved for mystics | Confuses a path with degrees for a feat | Desire for God frees from immoderate attachment (CCC § 2548)[40] |
| Once detached, it is acquired for good | The heart constantly re-ties its threads | "Use the world as though it passes" (1 Cor 7:31)[41] |
Detachment, indifference, renunciation, contempt: not to be confused
Many errors come from a blurry vocabulary, in which one word is taken for another. A few classic distinctions suffice to dispel the haze. Detachment is the heart's freedom from every disordered attachment, with a view to attaching itself to God alone: an order of love, not its abolition. Holy indifference (Ignatius) is not apathy: it is equal readiness for whatever God wills, through excess of love and not through lack of desire[42]. Renunciation is the concrete act by which we leave a good behind; it serves detachment, but does not constitute it — we can renounce without being detached, and be detached without renouncing everything.
Contempt for creatures, on the other hand, is not a form of detachment: it is a counterfeit coin, contrary to the goodness of creation[43]. Likewise, Stoic insensibility is not freedom of heart but its extinction. Confusing detachment with dreary indifference, spectacular renunciation, contempt, or coldness is exactly the error of nature already encountered. These words are therefore not synonyms: detachment and holy indifference name the freedom of ordered love; renunciation is one of its means; contempt and insensibility are only counterfeits, dangerous as soon as we take them for the virtue.
Restoring detachment to its true greatness
Once the counterfeits are set aside, detachment appears in its light. Far from being a dreary impoverishment or a coldness of heart, it is the secret of freedom: the soul that no longer clings to anything disorderly can finally cling to God with its full weight, and receive everything else from his hand as a gift, without being its slave. "All things are yours, and you are Christ's, and Christ is God's," says Saint Paul: the detached person does not lose the world, he receives it differently — freely.
That is why detachment is not sadness but joy: the joy of the light traveler, who has made God his sole treasure and who, having him, lacks nothing. Saint Paul gives the model, he who counts as "rubbish" all that he has left — not from disgust with the world, but from excess of love for Christ:
"For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things, and I consider them as rubbish, that I may gain one advantage: Christ." — Saint Paul, Letter to the Philippians 3:8[44]
Such is the term of all rightly understood detachment: not emptiness, but fullness; not a heart that has closed, but a heart opened wide enough for God. "For where your treasure is, there also will your heart be"[45] — and when the treasure is God, the heart, finally free, has everything. This is what Teresa of Avila's saying sums up, at the exact opposite of the caricatures that have disfigured detachment: "Let nothing disturb you... Whoever possesses God lacks nothing: God alone suffices."
To go further
- How to Grow in Detachment — the practical guide: nature, degrees, concrete means, traps and counterfeits, fruits of detachment.
- What the Saints Say About Detachment — the anthology: the voice of the Fathers, doctors, and mystics, the bird and the thread, the "nothing," "God alone suffices."
- Common Misconceptions About Evangelical Poverty — the neighboring article: the misconceptions about poverty of heart and the use of goods.
- Common Misunderstandings About Temperance — the twin article of the same series: the misconceptions about mastery of desires.
- Common Mistakes Regarding Interior Silence — another facet of the interior life, where the heart loosens itself from noise to listen to God.
Notes and References
Gospel according to Saint Matthew 6:21, official liturgical translation (AELF, English adaptation): "For where your treasure is, there also will your heart be." Taken up by the Catechism at the head of its synthesis on detachment (CCC § 2551).
1 45Letter to the Philippians 3:8, official liturgical translation (AELF, English adaptation): "I consider all this a loss for the sake of what surpasses all: the knowledge of Christ Jesus, my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things; I consider them as rubbish, that I may gain one advantage, Christ." The Greek term skybala ("sweepings, rubbish") marks the radicality of the Pauline choice — not from disgust with the world, but from excess of love for Christ.
2 27 44The Imitation of Christ, book I, ch. 1: "Apply yourself, then, to detaching your heart from the love of visible things, so as to carry it wholly toward the invisible, for those who follow the attraction of their senses stain their soul and lose the grace of God." Anonymous 15th-century work, traditionally attributed to Thomas à Kempis (c. 1380-1471).
3Saint Augustine (354-430), Confessions, book I, ch. 1: "Fecisti nos ad te, et inquietum est cor nostrum, donec requiescat in te" ("You have made us for yourself, and our heart is restless until it rests in you"). Standard Latin text in the Corpus Christianorum, Series Latina 27; commonly received English rendering. The root of detachment: the heart is at peace only in God, not in creatures.
4Catechism of the Catholic Church, § 2545: "All Christ's faithful are to 'order their affections rightly lest the use of the things of this world and attachment to riches which is contrary to the spirit of evangelical poverty turn them away from pursuing the perfection of charity'" (quoting Lumen gentium 42). Detachment is an ordering of the affections required of all, and it targets attachment contrary to the spirit of poverty, not the legitimate use of goods.
5 8 17 25 30Catechism of the Catholic Church, §§ 226-227, on the right use of created things, which are gifts of God and must lead to him: "To use created things fittingly: faith in the one God leads us to use everything that is not him insofar as it brings us closer to him, and to detach ourselves from it insofar as it turns us away from him." Detachment concerns disordered use, not creatures as such.
6 7 43Saint Francis de Sales, Introduction to the Devout Life, III, 14, image of the halcyons (kingfishers) whose nest remains impenetrable to the sea: the heart must remain "master of riches," set "above" them and not "in" them, like the bird floating on the waters without being submerged.
9Saint Ignatius of Loyola (1491-1556), Spiritual Exercises, § 23, "Principle and Foundation": "We must make ourselves indifferent to all created things [...], so that, for our part, we want health no more than sickness, riches no more than poverty [...], but desire and choose only what leads us more to the end for which we are created." Standard reference text. Ignatian "holy indifference" is an ardent readiness for God's will, not apathy.
10 32 42Gospel according to Saint Luke 14:26, official liturgical translation (AELF, English adaptation). The verb "to hate" (father, mother, etc.) is a Semitism meaning "to love less, not to prefer to" — not a call to contempt or to breaking bonds.
11 12 33Gospel according to Saint Matthew 6:24, official liturgical translation (AELF, English adaptation): "No one can serve two masters [...]. You cannot serve both God and Mammon." Parallel in Lk 16:13. Detachment resolves the impossible double service.
13Saint Francis de Sales (1567-1622), Introduction to the Devout Life, part III, ch. 14, "On poverty of spirit observed amid riches": "I approve of your having possessions [...] but I want you to possess them with a heart not possessed by them. [...] Be rich in effect and poor in affection." Detachment of heart can coexist with the actual possession of goods.
14 31 37Saint Teresa of Avila (1515-1582), The Life, written by herself, ch. XI: when we imagine we give ourselves entirely to God, "it turns out that it is only the interest and the fruits that we offer Him, and that we do in fact hold back the principal and the capital" — self-esteem and self-will, attachments far subtler than outward goods. Text verified in Œuvres très complètes, ed. Migne, 1840, vol. I, p. 310-311 (trans. Arnaud d'Andilly).
15 22 34Gospel according to Saint Luke 14:33, official liturgical translation (AELF, English adaptation): "Everyone of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple." Conclusion of the discourse on the conditions for following Christ; quoted by the Catechism (CCC § 2544) as the precept of detachment, required of all.
16Catechism of the Catholic Church, § 2544: "Jesus enjoins his disciples to prefer him to everything and everyone, and bids them 'renounce all that [they have]' for his sake and that of the Gospel (Lk 14:33). [...] The precept of detachment from riches is obligatory for entrance into the Kingdom of heaven." Detachment of heart is not a reserved counsel, but a precept addressed to all.
18 35Gospel according to Saint Matthew 5:3, official liturgical translation (AELF, English adaptation): "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven." First beatitude; the Catechism glosses it as "the voluntary humility of a human spirit and its renunciation" (CCC § 2546, quoting Saint Gregory of Nyssa).
19Gospel according to Saint Matthew 19:21, official liturgical translation (AELF, English adaptation): "If you wish to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me." The episode of the rich young man: it is not wealth, but the heart's attachment ("he had many possessions," v. 22), that holds him back.
20Catechism of the Catholic Church, § 2549: "There remains for the holy people to struggle, with grace from above, to obtain the good things God promises. To possess and contemplate God, Christ's faithful mortify their cravings and, with the grace of God, prevail over the seductions of pleasure and power." Detachment is a combat with grace, not a conquest of the will alone.
21 36Saint John of the Cross (1542-1591), The Ascent of Mount Carmel, book I, ch. 11: the soul held back by the slightest voluntary attachment, like a bird by a thread — "it makes little difference whether a bird is tied by a thick cord or a thin thread," for until it breaks it, it cannot fly. Work written c. 1579-1585.
23 38Saint Thérèse of the Child Jesus (1873-1897), letter 105 (to Céline, July 1890): loving God in aridity as much as in light, and preferring his will to his sensible favors. The detachment from spiritual consolations: preferring the God of consolations to the consolations of God.
24 39Catechism of the Catholic Church, § 2548: "The desire for true happiness frees man from his immoderate attachment to the goods of this world so that he can find his fulfillment in the vision and beatitude of God." The word immoderate is decisive: it is not all attachment that is targeted, but disordered attachment.
26 40First Letter to the Corinthians 7:29-31, official liturgical translation (AELF, English adaptation): "Time is running out [...]. Let those using the world be as not using it fully. For the world in its present form is passing away." The Pauline rule for the detached use of passing realities.
28 41Letter to the Colossians 3:1-2, official liturgical translation (AELF, English adaptation): "If then you were raised with Christ, seek what is above [...]. Think of what is above, not of what is on earth." The positive orientation of detachment: loosening oneself from earth to attach oneself to the risen Christ.
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